Ask
yourself: If you could do anything for 8 hours a day for the rest of your life,
and money were no object, what would you do?
I've
told audiences and clients this many times over the last 4 years. I found
myself, even as an executive in a great company with great people and great
products, burned out and doing the same thing every day. I may have spent 10%
of my time doing something I had a passion for, something where I thought I was
adding value, something that was fun.
I
was in a position where I could let my boss know that and was replaced a few
months later. Yes I could have gone and found another job like the one I had,
and yes I fortunately had built up enough wealth to "do what I wanted to
do" without worrying about the money.
However,
it still took me time and a Coach (Steve Chandler) to decide what I really
loved to do, what I had a passion for and then how to ensure that whatever new
project I worked on going forward would allow me to spend 90-100% of my day doing
something that I was passionate about. My WHY, my Core Purpose.
Mine?
"Helping people exceed their expectations and reach their dreams."
HOW? By learning, sharing the learning and creative problem solving. And where
could I pursue those passions ----- Coaching.
I
love it, I'm passionate about it, and think I bring value to it. (And yes,
after 4 years I'm earning as much as I did before.)
I
know you may be saying to yourself "well I cannot afford to quit and do
what I love. You and all these other people (below) had money, little
responsibility and could just pursue their passions and core purpose."
Sometimes
that comes as a tradeoff for pay, but spending 1/2 your waking hours doing
something you love is often well worth it. And I'm convinced that the people
who are best at what they do tend to be the ones that love it the most.
Here's
the rub. If I had stopped and really thought about my Why (my core purpose) and
the things I loved to do (my How), I could have found a way to pursue them 70-80%
of my time in my old job. I just did not "know", consciously think
about, and do my How each day. I could have found ways to do the things I loved
to do and helped my team and the company "exceed expectations and reach
their dreams." I could have learned, shared the learning and solved
problems creatively in that position. I could have coached, instead of managed.
You
may be able to do that too. But first you need to understand, write it down and
begin to pursue your Why and How.
I'm
not saying anything loads of great thinkers haven't already said. But sometimes
it's important to remind ourselves why we're doing what we're doing, what do we
really love to do and to take inventory of our dreams.
Below
are some great quotes about this subject. Most of these people started with
little and pursued their Why - their Core Purpose- and their success was
because of it. Not the other way around.
"Happiness is not in the mere possession of money;
it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort." - Franklin D. Roosevelt
"Far and away the
best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth
doing." - Theodore
Roosevelt
"Hard work is
painful when life is devoid of purpose. But when you live for something greater
than yourself and the gratification of your own ego, then hard work becomes a
labor of love." - Steve
Pavlina
"Never work just
for money or for power. They won't save your soul or help you sleep at
night." - Marian
Wright Edelman
"Success is peace of mind which is a direct result
of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are
capable of becoming." - John R.
Wooden
"Dream big and dare to fail." - Norman Vaughan
"Build your own
dreams, or someone else will hire you to build theirs." - Farrah Gray
"It is never too
late to be what you might have been." - George Eliot
"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears." - Les Brown
And
in case you're a procrastinator like me, a bonus quote:
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The
second best time is now." -
Chinese Proverb
Rick
Wallace
"Helping people exceed
their expectations"
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