"You
want to make money --- simply find someone with a problem and solve that
problem for them."
-
Steve Chandler
The following is from Steve
Chandler:
"Stressing out over hitting
my goals is not the same as caring about hitting them.
No performer, when tense, or
stressed, performs well. No leader does. No sales person. No fundraiser. No
parent.
A stressed-out, tense
performer only has access to a small per cent of their skill and talent and
intelligence. (Do you want a tense person shooting a free throw or kicking a
long field goal in the last moments of the game, or a confident, calm person?)
Most people stress themselves out
as a form of "really caring" about hitting their goals. But
it's not caring, it's stressing out.
Caring is relaxing, focusing and
calling on ALL of my resources, all of that relaxed magic, that lazy dynamite
that I bring to bear when I pay full attention with total peace of mind. No one
performs better than when they are relaxed and focused.
In a calm way find ways to serve
people and you will hit your goals. Whether it is customers, prospects,
employees, peers find ways to serve, not please.
When service is provided with the right spirit, it's a pure
joy. Mother Teresa often said in her interviews, "If people knew how
much joy I was experiencing when I serve people, they wouldn't consider me to
be such a saint." Wayne Dyer has a little internal mantra he likes
to speak to himself whenever a relationship or even a single conversation is
going poorly. He softly says, "How may I serve?" and the answer comes
to him immediately and the relationship is back into joyfulness again.
When the serving of others is done in that happy spirit, it is fun, and
relationships blossom immediately."
Regards,
Rick Wallace